Your Guide To Introducing Kink & BDSM

If you've been curious about kink or BDSM but not sure where to start, this is for you.

Un-Vanilla Your Sex Life is a consent-centered guide to introducing kink in a thoughtful, grounded way.

Inside, you’ll learn how to:

  • Reflect on what kink and sex mean to you
  • Start the conversation with your partner (especially if you’ve never talked about kink before)
  • Navigate consent and negotiation - without pressure
  • Use my mini Yes / No / Maybe list to clarify boundaries
  • Manage shame, fear, and judgment as it comes up
  • Understand aftercare and why it matters
  • Get grounded in kink basics, no experience required

May your kink exploration be full of curiosity, play, and pleasure.